Bailey
August 2009 - July 2021
As a pet parent and someone who's now dedicated my life to caring for animals, I’ve walked the path of love, joy, and, eventually, heartbreak. Saying goodbye to a beloved companion is one of the hardest things we face as pet owners, and it’s a journey I’ve experienced personally.
My first dog, Bailey, taught me the meaning of unconditional love and loyalty. She was my shadow, my comfort, and my best friend. When we found out she had cancer (likely starting in her toe and spreading to her lymph nodes and lungs), I was faced with a heartbreaking decision. It’s one thing to care for other people’s pets during their end-of-life stages; it’s another to walk that road yourself.
Reflecting on Bailey’s Quality of Life
For me, the decision came down to Bailey’s quality of life. I’ve seen loved ones, both human and animal, reach a point where they’re no longer themselves; where their joy and spark have been replaced by pain and struggle. That’s not a life I’d want for myself, and it’s not something I wanted for Bailey.
I thought deeply about the things she loved most:
Playing with her toys.
Greeting me at the door.
Sleeping beside me.
Enjoying her meals.
Running around with boundless energy.
As time went on, those moments faded. By the end, Bailey couldn’t play or run without becoming breathless. She rarely got up to greet me at the door, and most nights, she avoided sleeping beside us. The joy she once radiated was overshadowed by exhaustion.
One of the hardest realizations was watching her struggle to breathe, even when she hadn’t been active. I saw her discomfort, and while my heart ached at the thought of letting her go, I knew it was the kindest choice.
Her Last and Best Day
Bailey’s last day on this earth was nothing short of magical. I wanted her to feel nothing but love, joy, and comfort.
The day started with a delectable breakfast—pancakes and sausage. We went for a car ride, her head joyfully sticking out the window, the wind in her fur. For lunch, she had McDonald’s, and we spent the afternoon in the sunshine, enjoying the warm day and the biggest bone I could find for her.
Dinner was even better, steak followed by ice cream for dessert. She was so tired from her amazing day that by the time the vet arrived for her at home euthanasia, she could barely keep her eyes open.
Bailey crossed the rainbow bridge in my arms that night, surrounded by the people who loved her most. It was peaceful, filled with love, and a final act of kindness for a dog who had given me so much joy.
An Honor in Her Final Moments
I was privileged to participate in Bailey’s final preparations before she was cremated. While it was far from easy, it was an honor to ensure her remains were treated with the dignity and respect she deserved.
In my time working at the veterinary clinic, I had witnessed firsthand how some staff treated pets after their passing, often with a lack of care or compassion. Thankfully, I was able to stay by Bailey's side, ensuring every step of her aftercare reflected the love and respect she brought into my life. It was a heartbreaking experience, but one I wouldn’t trade for anything. She deserved to be honored, even in those final moments, and I’m grateful I could give her that.
Making the Right Decision for Your Pet
Bailey’s journey shaped how I approach end-of-life care, both personally and professionally. Every pet is unique, and so is their quality of life. That’s why I’m passionate about providing tools and support to help pet parents navigate these difficult decisions.
At On Point Pet Sitting, I offer:
A Quality of Life Checklist to help you assess your pet’s well being.
Resources on coping with loss, including handouts and suggested books.
A list of compassionate veterinarians in the Edmonton area who provide at-home euthanasia services.
Information about local pet cremation services to honor your pet’s memory.
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